Friday, February 21, 2014

Journeys 2-23-14 The return of the cranes.



It’s something you count on. I look forward to it.  

I find myself squinting toward the sky to see if those are geese, ducks or cranes.  It appears that the geese get to come first, then the ducks, then the cranes.  And even though migrating thousands of miles should count for something, we don’t get half as excited about the geese and ducks as we do the cranes.

Is there enough water in the platte river for the cranes?  Is there too much water?  Did we leave enough corn on the ground to attract them?  

The arrival of the sandhill cranes is a sign that spring is actually going to happen.  They also put us on the map.  Where we live is special because of who they are.  They make our home a tourist destination each spring.  Famous people make an annual pilgrimage to south central Nebraska to see one of the last great migrations on earth.

The cranes are bigger than ducks and geese. Their long legs and huge wing span set them apart in flight.  But the way you can really tell if that “V” flying over is our cranes is the sound.  There is nothing like that sound.  We long for it in February, then can’t get it out of our heads in April.

Their call touches something deep in our souls.  It resonates with some primeval clock that’s set to the turning of the planet. We get to witness something big; something that’s been happening since before our ancestors ancestors even thought about migrating to the high plains to live.  We get to be part of this ancient drive in their tiny bird brains that tells them to stick together and be on the move north for the summer once again.

So just when the events of our world seem to have gone all out of kilter with new shootings every week, congressional budget battles, murders, the threat of another flu epidemic, record snow storms in the east, drought and the threat of wild-fires in the west, we squint toward that black “V” in the sky and hear that sound and we know that they’re back. Something is right with our world.  It’s going to be O.K.


Grace & Peace,

Friday, February 14, 2014

Journeys 2-16-14 "Valentine's Day"



Valentine’s Day.

When you fall in love you lose yourself. No, that’s not quite it. Love smacks you upside the head. Yeah, that’s closer.

There is something about loving another that’s outside your control; like you can’t help yourself.  At the same time, you’ve made a choice to give yourself to it.

I will admit that I have been in love several times in my life.  Sometimes I knew it.  Sometimes I had no idea.  

The father side of me, trying to explain this thing to my pre-teen kids has said that it’s like all of a sudden, that other person’s happiness becomes as important or more important than your own.  Seeing them smile brings a joy that’s bigger than the stars!  And the best is when it is mutual; when they love you and you love them.  That’s not to say that their love is equal to yours.  Cause’ love cannot be measured.  It is as individual and unique as a snow flake. 

My three kids have been in multiple relationships.  And each time they’d fall for another, I’d start fearing “the break-up.”  But a part of me wants them to fall hard and deeply in love; no half-way in the things of the heart.  The other part of me wants to protect them from getting scars and callouses on their souls.  

One side of love is like being knocked over by a huge wave.  The other is a clear conscious decision; the will to give yourself away, to serve, no matter what their response.  Their reception of your love does not matter as much as your desire to give it. 

I have told couples at their weddings that from now on, every day you will wake up and choose to be married.  And that wedding ceremony is the beginning of you publicly telling the world that you choose to love this other person like you love no other person in this world.   And I say that, knowing full well that I could not talk them out of it if I wanted to.  Cause' love has smacked them upside the head and they re out of their minds, head over heals, gaga over each other.  And it’s just fun to be in the same room with the power and depth of that love.


Grace & Peace,

Rev. Kelly